Piddling Pooches: Excited Urination in Dogs

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By Sophia Yin, DVM, MS

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Q) Our ten-month-old Cockapoo is adorable; however, he has a problem. Whenever he gets excited, especially when my grown children and grandchildren come over, he pees on them and on the floor. We try very hard to give him lots of attention and everyone greets him on arrival, but the peeing is quite extensive. It also occurs when I bring him to their homes. As soon as we walk in, he leaves a trail of urine.

Are there some measures I can take to avoid the embarrassment and damage to the floors, shoes and pants?

—BL in Napa

A) Never fear, your pup’s peeing problems will soon disappear. While little Fido’s bladder control or lack thereof leaves much to be desired he’s in a phase that most puppies pass through. He may be a little behind on the piddling predicament, but the problem is likely to eventually evaporate as he matures. In the meantime you can take several steps to speed the process along.

You’ve identified Fido’s problem as occurring upon first greeting family and friends, and you’ve correctly observed that he piddles out of excitement. So the solution is simple. Don’t get him so excited.

When family and friends come to visit, instead of petting and playing with the piddling pooch they should ignore the little guy for several minutes or until he has calmed down. Once he’s standing or sitting serenely, they can try some placid petting. They should start with slow, even strokes paired either with silence or soft, soothing speech.

If Piddles the pup lets loose at this stage, the petting session started too soon, was too exuberant, or lasted too long. Petters should gauge his behavior. If Piddles starts to wiggle and squirm in excitement they should quickly remove their attention and treat him as if he doesn’t exist. Then as soon as he’s still, they can reward him with petting.

Expect immediate accidents the first few times because Piddles is used to his old routine—see friends, greet excitedly, and urinate. But, surprisingly, if all greeters stick to the new routine, the piddling problem might be solved in only a handful of sessions. Meanwhile, if you fear for the safety of your family’s floors, you can hold the first few sessions outside.

Q) We own a beautiful whippet boxer mix named Matilda whom we got from the pound when she was 7 months old. When we got her, she was frightened of most people. We took her to dog school and have faithfully kept up with her training. She’s wonderfully behaved and very happy and sociable. Our problem is that she’s 4 years old now and she often pees when saying hello to people. There are a few people who Mattie loves to see but greets them every time by peeing and then flopping down into the pee and wanting to be petted. We really want to stop the peeing! What can we do?

—Amy in East Bay

A) Sweet, messy Matilda’s not overexcited like the last case. By flopping down and piddling in joy, she’s proclaiming her submissive status.

But a submissive dog is not a bad thing. In fact it’s the safe place to be. Gesturing this way to other dogs and to people who read fluent “dog” sends the clear message that she’s no threat. However, add the bit about the piddling and it becomes a nuisance to humans. As with the piddling pup, we’ll just change her routine, but in this case, instead of teaching Matilda to just be calm when petted, she’ll learn to sit.

Although she undoubtedly know to plop her derriere down on command, we’ll teach her to sit automatically in certain situations.

First, at home, take some treats and wait for Matilda to sit on her own. As soon as she sits, offer her a treat. When she learns to automatically sit for treats or a pat on the head, she’s ready for her new greeting routine. You’ll need to enlist some friends to help.

When Matilda runs to greet them they should ignore the flopping Fido. That means silence. Not touching or talking to her and no commands to sit. Any petting or talking will reward her for that undesired behavior. When she finally sits on her own they can give her a few pats on the head or a treat. Like Piddles the pup, start with short petting sessions and stop before she flops down again. Consistent follow-up and before you know it, she’ll have a piddle-free greeting routine.


Adapted from an article originally published in the San Francisco Chronicle in 2001.

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29 responses to “Piddling Pooches: Excited Urination in Dogs

  1. Dear Dr. Yin,

    These examples of other dogs peeing when greeting or getting excited applies to our dachshund, but we’re dog sitting a chihuahua (2 yrs.) and he’s never been housebroken due to an inattentive couple who never bothered to train him. Sometimes he goes to the door to be let out and I let him out often with my other dogs, but he will still pee and sometimes poops in the house. We purchased a belt with velcro that holds a sanitary napkin to keep him from ruining carpets and he wears this in the house except for when I put him in the laundry room to sleep. Do you think there’s any hope of housebreaking at this late date?

    Thank you for any advice you can give us.


    1. yes, you can house train him, but you have to help a little more at this point. You can teach an old dog new tricks, you already have the patience. I would start with a pee pad in his room. If he doesn’t go on it, put a few drops on it by touching the pad to where he went (just enough to scent it.) Clean and deodorize the area where he went (and any other places he goes. I use peppermint oil as it doesn’t take a who;e lot and it’s non toxic. Keep doing this for a few days. you should start to see urine on the pee pad. If you don’t work, or you can take time on weekends, train him in the room you let him outside from. Same deal with the pee pad and deodorizing accidents. Just move the pee pad a little closer to the door each day. He’ll get it. Don’t forget to love and reward his progress.

  2. M’y dog la almost two and she près when ever i leave and come back I can be gone one min. from her site and then when she sees me all hell breaks loose. I’m so embarressed and don’t know what to do she never has accident in the house only excitable accidents.

  3. Mabel pees as soon as you walk in the door. Not so much with her owners but when we visit or they visit there is absolutely no time to use the tips above. She is a rescue dog 3 years old they have had her for almost two years. She will pee before you can even say sit and if you do say sit she pees during her sit. They are getting ready to remodel thier house and need to get this stopped. Wouldn’t a sound collar work when she does it? And if not why.

    1. We’re sorry you are having this issue with your dog – that can be very frustrating. Included some links below that discuss how to potty train.
      We can also recommend our Perfect Puppy book & the Creating the Perfect Puppy DVD for more on training issues. Also you should rule out any medical issues that could be the problem, by seeing your vet. If the problem persists, we suggest you see a veterinary behaviorist. To find behaviorists in your area, please visit the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior website ( Under Resources, click on “Behavior consultants near you.” They will be able to better assess your situation and can give more detailed advice. You can also find others here:
      Hope that helps.

  4. My 4 year old is doing the exact same thing when my adult children come over. Definitely going to try the not letting or anything until she isn’t excited anymore. This just started but there’s been a lot of new situations for my poor little girl so I’m not all that surprised. More like kids then we will ever know.

  5. My 4 year old is doing the exact same thing when my adult children come over. Definitely going to try the not petting or anything until she isn’t excited anymore. This just started but there’s been a lot of new situations for my poor little girl so I’m not all that surprised. More like kids then we will ever know.

  6. My Maltese, 5 yrs old, is having a piddling contest with the older Westie in the house. The Westie is my son’s dog, 15 yrs. old. I moved in with my dog and I guess the older is marking his territory and mine doing the same. They have known each other since mine was a pup and I brought him over to play. No problem with the Lab. What can we do.


  7. My 5 month old male cockapoo is still peeing on the floor. I have done all the praising with him outside, watch the timing with meals and play, and he does not seem to get my attention in anyway that he needs to go out. He will even look right at us and pee on the floor at times! I will ask him if he needs to go potty outside and take him outside. I have tried to use the bell on the door handle and he shows no interest in using it and shies away from it.

  8. My 1 year old flat coated retriever, is a real joy. Uses the doggy door and is very smart with tricks, etc. the only and worst problem I have, or should I say he has, is that he is an excited peeing. When anyone comes over, he tinkles drops. We try all the methods you suggested and then some but I think he pees out of not only excitement. He loves people and dogs and being around them. I am told by the vet he will grow out of this, but when? We are still waiting to get our carpets cleaned. Hope you can help.

    1. I have a 4 yr old Yorkie who also has a happy pee as my vet calls it whenever someone comes to the door. My vet also told me he would grow out of it. I see no evidence of this happening. My solution is two fold. First I pick him up as soon as I hear the bell ect, then he licks the guest and the episode is over secondly, I bought him doggie diapers that look like a bathing suit when we travel and visit family. He only weighs 8 lbs so this is possible. If he were larger my solutions wouldn’t work. None of this is ideal. Good luck everyone! I think this is permanent.

  9. I have a 2 year old sheepadoodle. The excitement urination only started after he was neutered. I have tried all of the recommendations. My husband does not want to keep him if this does not stop 🙁 He’s the sweetest dog. We can leave for only 5 minutes and when we come home it always happens. No matter who comes over it’s the same thing.

  10. Rehab a 10 month old hound mix That We rescued along with his six siblings from underneath a shed on a vacant property they were about 5 weeks old when we got them we have him and a brother left tank is our problem he used to do submissive peeing which he finally stopped. Here lately when my husband tries to do any kind of remodel in our home he will pee and poop we have no idea what’s causing this Behavior or how to stop it. His brother Harley is not bothered by this at all any suggestions?

  11. My 2 year old dachshund piddles pee even after she has been out. She doesn’t urinate on herself and its not a full pee.If she barks a lot or if she’s excited or sometime she can be just walking around and leave a dribble of pee behind. Any advice?


  12. I Need Help!!! My 19 month old Poodle/Terrier mix, Sophie, has a serious pee-pee problem.
    We rescued her from the humane society and found that she was a stray. The vet guessed her between 10 months to a year. I went with a year.
    I have had her now for 7 mos. She has a wonderful life with lots of love and affection. She has went through a 7 week basic obedience course and is now participating in a 7 week Agility course. She goes to the dog park 1-2 x per week. So I keep her quite active.

    The problem: She PEE”S upon our arrival home, if left alone for ANY period of time. She pee’s on the bed, on the couch, anywhere she is greeted.

    She pee’s when I say good morning. She pee’s when I say goodbye. She PEE’s!!!! (Thank God for Tile)

    She pee’s only when myself, my husband or our neighbor (whom she LOVES) comes to our home. She has a Serious problem that she just can’t control. I feel for her, big time, (she is so flippin cute) but I’m also at my wits end.

    She does not like strangers. A stranger or someone she has already met, visitors that stay 3-5 nights, in our home….she barks and stays away. No Pee! She could care less about strangers. It’s only 3 people that she pee’s for.

    I have ignored her, so has my husband and my neighbor. For a LONG time. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.

    I came home today and tried something different. I took her leash into the house and said “you wanna go for a walk?” She ran into the garage and as I went to put her leash on she pee’d and she pee’d and she pee’d a RIVER and then of course she get’s into it. Oh what fun!

    Please….any and all advise is Mucho appreciated. I will NEVER give up…She is a lifer!!!


  13. My pitbull is a year and a half and STILL pees when she’s excited. Only when I come home though! I’ve tried to ignore her and she jumps on me and scratches me, if I tell her not to jump then she gets excited that I’m paying attention to her and pees anyways. I’ve tried giving her attention and sitting on the ground with her to avoid jumping but she always pees on the floor. If I ignore her, she scratches me, if I give her any kind of attention, she pees. I’m at a loss I thought she’d grow out of this by now. Shouldn’t bigger dogs be able to control their bladder at this age?!

  14. My dog is 1 1/2 years old. He still piddles every time we walk through the door – He is very excitable! I don’t know how to get him to calm down when we are all out of the house and come home. He is better when someone is already at home and can pick him up when someone comes in. We have followed all the rules; walk in, no contact, calm reaction… but it’s not getting better. Sometimes he pees on our feet!! My older dog never had issues beyond six months, so it’s not something I’ve had to deal with. Any advice would be appreciated!

  15. My two year old Bernese mountain dog has been piddling more lately. If he’s scared or excited he just trails it around the house like he doesn’t know it’s happening. It’s only become a problem the past few months though. He’s fine when we walk in the door it’s typically if we’re playing with him, I can’t just ignore him all the time and not play with him though!

  16. I have a 13 lb maltese, someone had him for 7 years , we got him in july so we now have him 9 months, he is trained, good in cars, he has trouble coming when we say come. that I can take what is hard is if we go to put on a leash he pees, its like a nevous pee how can I stop that

  17. I have an 11month old bouvier des flandres. He is such a great, smart, sweet, and obedient dog. He has his canine good citizen certificate and has had advanced training as well. The only problem is he submissively urinates a lot. He pees even when we’ve been home with him all day and we just walk up and pet him. We’ve tried not appearing so dominant…. petting from the side, not leaning over, petting under the chin… none of this has helped. He does it more with my husband. I think it’s because he has a deep, projecting voice. Also, I’ve trained him so I think he has more confidence with me. My husband is at the end of his rope and I don’t want to get rid of him. Our kids love him and he’s a great dog, but the urinating is too much. It’s hard to fully enjoy him. Does anyone have any advice?

  18. My 4 year old pitt is very sweet, but she too gets excited and pees. My adult son lives with us and when he gets home from work she will pee. She has even peed on our bed!!! She loves people, but only does it for the ones she loves.

  19. My 1 year old German shepherd dog started recently to randomly walk mid pee and not even finish and then a couple of minutes later she starts to pee again In the same way because she didn’t finish in the first place, please help she didn’t do this before I don’t understand why she does it now

  20. so our 12 week old puppy is almost housetrained the problem is even if we ignore her or guests ignore her it matters not..she just gets so excited she pees…even if they don’t greet her ….how can we stop her excitement?

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